If you’re the best man, groomsmen or a close family member tasked with planning the bachelor party, consider a spa getaway. You might think spa days are for women, however, increasingly men have become interested in self care. A spa day is for you to take care of yourself by doing something for your skin, body or even just your mind and mental health.
How To Begin
Depending on how the groom wants to bond with their closest friends and family, it’s best to choose a spa experience that includes multiple types of treatment. This way, everyone should find something they enjoy. Whether it be facials, body scrubs or wraps, massages, sauna and steam rooms or hot pools, if the spa is all inclusive you will all have a good time. It’s a bonus if they have offerings geared towards men such as bar services with beer.
But remember, pampering and taking care of yourself shouldn’t be gender specific. If traveling is not in the plans for this gathering, do not be afraid to call up the local spas in town and book with the one that sounds right to you.
When calling consider asking these questions:
- Ask for recommendations in treatments for first timers
- Ask about time of arrival / cancellation policies
- Ask if preparation is needed before arriving
- If it’s an all inclusive spa, ask if there’s a time limit you can stay on the property before or after your treatment
To point you in the right direction, here are some spots in the US to consider if a spa day or getaway is what you think the groom and the entire group needs.
Spa Solage (Auberge Resorts) – Napa, California
“Come to Solage to detox, retox, and repeat. At the center of it all is our award-winning 20,000 square foot Spa Solage, which showcases the renowned Calistoga mud and mineral water therapies that have attracted spa-goers to this northern stretch of Napa Valley since the 19th century. The Bathhouse, our spa’s very heart, delivers the ultimate wellness experience, featuring exclusive geothermal pools with temperatures that range from icy cold, to a comforting 98°, and a soothing 103°.”
In an interview with travel weekly, they stated that the bathhouse has a bar where you can order a local IPA while in the spa space. This is also located in Napa, so if you love wines it would be a great little getaway to do both! What more can you ask for when planning a trip to relax.
Hush Manhattan Spa (Men’s Spa) – New York, New York
“Hush Manhattan is home to a craft of ancient body care services, for the everyday man. Our mission is to reinvent the entire spa experience to one befitting the modern man.”
Diving right into a mixed spa environment might be intimidating for your first time, so looking for men specific spas could be where you start to get your feet wet. Here, they have all the offerings for a day at the spa but in an all male environment.
The Beer Spa – Denver, Colorado
“Come enjoy the best spa in Denver! Enjoy a unique experience at The Beer Spa which offers brew-inspired spa packages. Our on-site taproom serves local craft beer, wine, cider, and non-alcoholic beverages.”
This unique spa combines a day spa with a craft beer taproom. Guests can enjoy beverages at any time during their treatments and stay at the spa. They also offer a unique brew-inspired treatment such as a beer bath. If you’re looking for a unique experience that also offers all the pampering and relaxation of a spa, this might be the one to check out.
We Do Men – Scottsdale, Arizona
“I wanted to create a new take on MEN, and the spa biz. I call what I do “The Art Of Manhandling.” Therefore WE DO MEN, and the booze, tunes and taboos menu was born. Cheers!”
Taking on the traditional spa environment and flipping it on its head. If you want a fun environment for your spa treatments so you’re able to laugh and relax along the way, this could be one to check out! Scottsdale has also become quite the destination for bachelor/bachelorette getaways in general. If this was already a destination you were thinking about, why not throw in a spa day too.
Final Thoughts
Planning a spa day might not sound conventional, but men deserve to have self care just as much as women. If the groom and the entire party agrees, kick convention out the window and have an amazing time.
